He cries easily in movies.

To let him do what he wants to do is abhorrent to the laws of nature, to the laws of love. You pounce upon the happy moments, you hold them up as proof - See? This is why it's worth living. This is why I've been making him try - even though that one moment cannot compensate for all the other moments, the majority of the moments.
Hanya Yanagihara, A Little Life
After the argument between Almut and Tobias about bocuse d’or I kept thinking of billie eilish’s what was I made for and the struggle of figuring out what one is made for, especially as time runs out. Finding myself a bit lost at this point in time, I particularly appreciate how the answer almut seems to give is that whatever we choose to do is ok. And how heart warming is Tobias’ understanding